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Sometimes, the harder we try to make people like us, the more we push them away. Whether it's trying to seem cool, covering up a mistake, or shifting blame, certain phrases can turn a minor slip-up into a lasting loss of respect.
In this video, we break down five common behaviors that can make people dislike you—and how to handle these moments better.
Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
0:43 - Phrase #1
2:25 - Phrase #2
3:28 - Phrase #3
4:38 - Phrase #4
5:56 - Boundary Poking
7:08 - Phrase #5
7:56 - How to redeem yourself
11:05 - The fastest way to improve your confidence and charisma
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What if you could take someone who started a conversation insulting you and end that conversation with them saying they appreciated and respected you?
That’s what we’re covering today - the 7 simple steps to make a rude person take back what they said, show you respect, and wish they hadn’t begun with the rudeness in the first place.
Full Sneako/Dr K video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sf1LlVHsusU&t=0s
Timestamps:
0:00 - Intro
0:45 - Set a boundary
1:25 - State what YOU are going to do
2:06 - Don’t engage with unwanted behavior
2:48 - Respond slowly
4:06 - Ask open questions
6:30 - Two useful tricks
7:21 - Ask them this…
8:34 - Drop trying to change them
9:38 - How to level up your confidence and charisma
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Elon Musk recently pretended to be one of the best in the world at a video game—only for the truth to come out. But this isn’t just about a lie; it’s about the sad pipeline of toxic shame, where the fear of not being enough leads to deception, compulsive validation-seeking, and, in some cases, malignant narcissism. This video breaks down how it happens—and how to break free.
0:00 - Intro
0:29 - Elon Musk was caught pretending
1:00 - The context
3:39 - The psychology behind Toxic Shame
5:20 - Where Toxic Shame comes from
6:06 - The opposite of Toxic Shame
6:20 - It can get worse...
7:18 - How to address Toxic Shame
9:12 - Want to level up your confidence and charisma?
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This video explores the archetype of the king, its defining traits, and how embodying that mature king energy can boost your self-confidence.
0:00 - Intro
0:39 - #1) The King has little interest in changing other people's minds
1:55 - #2 ) King Energy inspires people around to feel confidence
4:18 - #3) Kings define themselves by what they love
7:16 - The Burden Test
8:18 - How to offer support
8:36 - You must be committed to clear seeing
12:07 - Want more?
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Malcolm Gladwell’s debate missteps offer valuable lessons in handling arguments and conflict.
This video breaks down key mistakes like passive aggression, straw-manning, and defensiveness—and shows you how to avoid them while staying calm and persuasive.
Learn how to respond when others twist your words or act rude, and recognize when you’re shutting down so you can stay in control and confident in any situation.
0:00 - Intro
0:46 - #1: Covert Sniping
2:30 - How To Reverse Rudeness
3:03 - #2: Straw-Manning
5:34 - Refuse Burdens
6:17 - Use The "That's Exactly Why" Response
6:40 - Can you pass this test?
8:14 - #4: Projecting Bad Faith
9:33 - How To Avoid This In Your Own Life
10:42 - Notice When You Lose Your Capacity To Listen
12:16 - Want To Build That Unshakable Confidence?
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Written by:
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The most underrated social skill is so subtle it often goes unnoticed—but it has the power to change lives, including yours. In this video, I reveal the transformative art of "holding space," a skill that's not about fixing, advising, or encouraging, but simply being present for someone in their moments of vulnerability.
Through Theo Von's deeply empathetic interaction with Sean Strickland, who shares harrowing stories of his past, we explore how this skill can create profound connections. You'll learn to recognize dissociation, switch conversational modes, and offer support without an agenda.
0:00 - Intro
0:11 - Here is the skill
0:46 - Disconnected emotions
1:32 - The underlying emotions break through
1:57 - Switch conversational modes
3:49 - Just listen
4:45 - Encourage emotional exploration
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In this video, I open up about the difficult decision to leave Charisma on Command, the falling out with my co-founder, and the personal struggles that led to this moment.
I'm also excited to share what’s next and to continue creating content that inspires and empowers.
0:00 - Intro
0:20 - The short version of the story
0:43 - The long version of the story
4:58 - What's next
9:02 - A big thank you
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The number one regret of people who are dying is "I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me."
So let’s spend this video going through how you can do just that.
⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:00 - Intro
1:00 - #1: Find your fire
2:25 - #2: Create an inner circle
3:10 - #3: Decide your core values
4:47 - #4: Leave the validation casino
7:09 - #5: Self acceptance
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Video of Sam asking out 100 women to get over his fear of rejection:
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Failure might delay your dreams, but fear will kill them. Because fear leads to inaction.
So in today’s video, you’ll learn 7 tricks to help silence that voice in your head that fears rejection.
That way you can go into any conversation with confidence, knowing you’ll feel completely unphased even if you do get rejected
⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:00 - Intro
0:23 - #1: You are not your first impression
1:05 - #2: Rejection is inevitable. Shame is optional
2:09 - #3: Life is a numbers game
2:45 - #4: Amp up your carrot/stick motivation
3:15 - #5: Rejections are good for you
5:24 - #6: See rejection as a sign that you aren't a good match
5:49 - #7: Focus on becoming the type of person who has options
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We are in an epidemic of loneliness and it’s a real problem.
Roughly half of adults report feeling socially disconnected, and science is showing loneliness is associated with a greater risk of dementia, stroke, depression, anxiety, and even has a similar risk of premature death as smoking up to 15 cigarettes a day.
On the flip side, you’ve probably heard that you are an average of the five people you spend the most time with. That means with rare exceptions, your happiness and success are heavily dependent on who your friends are.
So in today’s video, you’ll learn how to improve in each of the four main phases for making incredible friendships.
⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰
0:00 - Intro
0:40 - #1: How To Meet New People
0:42 - Proximity
1:06 - Join A Flock
1:41 - Become A Beacon
2:10 - Say Yes To Invitations
2:20 - #2: How To Turn Them Into Friends
2:40 - Focus On The Process
3:22 - Bait For Shared Interests
4:13 - #3: How To Make Your Friendships World Class
4:36 - A Shared North Star
6:04 - Being A Lifeline
7:55 - Mutual Vulnerability
9:32 - #4: How To Maintain Them For Decades
9:37 - Constructive Conflict
11:37 - The 5 To 1 Rule
12:00 - Replace Jealousy With Joy
13:41 - Expect And Embrace Change
15:02 - Do you want great new friendships?
How To Be Happier For The Rest Of Your Life:
https://youtu.be/VTOO_9_ECA8?si=U_G6rMULINOQcEd_
How To Make A Great Impression:
https://youtu.be/NzVrmGjsGWo?si=qCLL0JRa4gT_MMjb
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